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"I'll never find that kind of love?"

  Can you guess what’s 4,000 weeks long?  Truly, it is the average human lifespan. So you are really going to tell me, I was born into this ginormous world, with a vast variety of places, people, animals, art… and I will not be able to experience even a fraction of it? I know, let’s just say I was a difficult kid in this regard. I am 22 and I am still a difficult kid who talks to her mom at least once a week with a new idea or plan. What else can I say? Life fascinates me. I cannot think of the last time I felt bored. In fact, I'm frequently the polar opposite of bored. I'm overstimulated by all the things I want to do at any one time, and I'm overwhelmed by the fact that I have to choose just one. I am simply just intrigued. There is always something to do or to learn about. So many lives to live. I’m in constant awe of the fact that millions of years of evolution lead to me being here, at this very moment. The odds of that happening was basically zero, for all of us, yet,...
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Just trivial thoughts on ghosting~~

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  Ghosting – when someone cuts off all communication without explanation —  extends to all things, it seems. Most of us think about it in terms of digital departure: a friend not replying to a text, or worse, a lover, but it occurs in all social situations and is linked to how we perceive the world. Requesting a beverage and then jetting may not appear to be the same as abandoning an undesirable romance, but it is. Uncomfortable? Simply do not reply. A ghost is a phantom, something we believe is present but is not. Everyone has been a victim of ghosting or ghosting others at some point in their lives, especially in the 4.0 era, when we look for our life partners through social networking platforms like Tinder, Bumble,...It's difficult enough to keep real-life connections; it's impossible to be friends with everyone you're purportedly simpatico with online. In the dating industry, where people meet a lot of people outside of their social circles, there is a sense that if you...
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Things that dreamers see in a relationship

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           Relationships are complex, and at times perplexing, because people are. We're erratic, annoying creatures who don't always know what we're doing or what we want. Nonetheless, we are expected to merge with another member of this species and work in unison. So I've discovered that in most relationships, people tend to focus on things to be aware of in the other person while there is so much to be aware of within ourselves. I mean, it's simpler to point fingers at people, the things we expect from them, the things we desire from them, and the flaws in them. Everyone wants to be recognized as a self-sufficient individual, the one who takes the initiative and chooses “what-to-do and need-to-do” in a relationship. When we are trapped in our love tales, we all seek assistance from friends, family, and even through social media, such as this article, which gives information on the difficulties we are dealing with. And the answer is invariable, "Whoever ...
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